If you wish to turn things up in the bedroom? I would suggest you first cool things down. The technique of using ice cubs in bed is called as the “Temperature Play”. It is used to stimulate the neuroreceptors which are present under the skin. It is one of the easiest ways to add the factors of “kink” if your sex life. The technique has been scientifically proven to be effective in bed and also to pick up a stranger using seduction techniques in places like a bar.
Now that we have discussed how it works and the wonders it could do to your sexual life, the following are few of techniques you must keep in mind before you get the fun started to get your partner craving and trembling for more of it on the bed.
1) Tease Your Partner
Whether you are planning on using toys or ice cubes, teasing is essential. Take a handful of ice cubes out of the freezer and place them in a bowl near your bed. Take a sufficient amount of ice in your hand or your mouth and slowly start to draw them on your partner’s skin. When they begin to feel cold, it’ll cause their nerves to perk up and anticipate the sensation. For the best outcome in women, try to avoid their nipples and inner thighs till the very last minute. As the arousal slowly builds, the body will begin to heat, and the sensitive areas will become more sensitive until they are eventually touched with ice causing extreme pleasure and arousal.
2) Enhance Oral Sex with Ice
Before you decide to go down on her, put an ice cube in your mouth and suck on it till your mouth is as cold as a popsicle. This frostiness of the cube will keep her nether region cold, and at the same time, the warmth of your breath will make it feel relaxed, making it quite literally a joy ride for her. The added bonus of using ice is that it helps withhold orgasm, thus leading to a heightened state of sexual arousal.
3) Switch Between Temperatures
When a human body gets cold, it begins to contract, and when it is heated, it begins to loosen up. Take advantage of this and be playing with the temperature as it’ll constantly help build and release a ton of sexual tension. If you are planning to use this trick on a woman, get her body hot with something warm with the help of a lubricant or by drizzling honey on her stomach and the slowly begin to brush her inner thighs and nipples with ice cubes — the trick guarantees to send shivers down her spine.